Here is what i think about girls being there for you through it all:

I've been telling some girls i know that if they want to commit to being with a man, if that man has a good financial situation, they really need to imagine what the relationship would like if that financial situation deteriorated. So in other words, if a girl finds a guy who has good money, i want her to think about what it would be like if he didn't. And so far, when i tell girls to do that, they struggle with it. They're like "but he does have money, why would he not have money." And i can't tell them that I've talked so many guys over the 5+ years I've been doing this, but i tell them that I'm pretty sure "having good money" doesn't' always last. And that if they wouldn't want to stick around or support or significantly help if their guy lost his good situation, that 1) this isn't the guy for them and 2) they really need to do some soul searching when it comes relationship priorities.Some guys get their finances going from a relatively youngg age, and just make all the right moves, avoid all the traps, and they just have good money always. And some guys have families that would just never let them struggle. For the remaining 97% of men, some bad times are inevitable. Not every decision is the right one. And some of it is just luck. I knew some guys who had never had a speed bump with their finances until Covid happened, because they never prepared for something like that. Who would? There are so many traps: divorce, getting into some bad lawsuit thing, business trends changing, company you work for gets bought and they clean house, etc. etc. What I'm saying is that: for almost all guys, there will be at least a few times in their life when they have to "pick the pieces up and figure shit out!" And I'm telling you that a lot of these girls do not seem to be OK with the concept of "what if your guy loses it all."And bringing this home now, I think girls need to be with a guy who they would do anything to help if shit got rough. And I think guys need to make sure that they are with that type of girl too! Don't just take it for granted that you're with a girl who would do the right things if things got tough. Ask her, test her, and be sure. Because the last thing a guy needs is to lose his job or get stuck in a bad lawsuit, or lose his business...and then for his wife to just make things 10X worse by leaving the scene and taking whatever she can on the way out. You can handle having to start all over if you have a supportive woman. But you add in a messy divorce at the same time, and that'll take anybody down. That's a bad decade rather than a bad 6-12 months.